Solution? Book our own private venue :o) I dd this last yr and it was very successful. We have our own room with disco & buffet and it's all about us. Worked out even better this year as EVERYONE had funny tan lines but no one cared cause everyone was in same boat.
Lots of dancing lots of drinking and lots fun was had by all. I think the bar staff are amazed at the amount of people who get up to do the gay Gordon's :)
Great way to end a great weekend, oh topped off with kwababa at end of night, obviously!